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Juz for you blog
well its sweet with the title but now its bitter to see the title... i guess not long this blog will be not here... and i have backup the blog content which remains just as a memories....
for this blog, i not sure are there any1 reading it... i guess nop... and due to unsupportive i guess i might just stop writting already... its just like a feeling of my insanity to talking to myself... i quite tired of it... may b i just open a new 1 for writting my view out....
justin
for this blog, i not sure are there any1 reading it... i guess nop... and due to unsupportive i guess i might just stop writting already... its just like a feeling of my insanity to talking to myself... i quite tired of it... may b i just open a new 1 for writting my view out....
justin
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Life of 2 kinds of majority types of people...
well just a view on a book i read long time ago...
lets see what majority childrens are educated on...
private? government? haha either of them will build diff kinds of mindset
i can state 1st i study in government school... till my secondary school life...
why i pointing this information out? simple... to widen the mindset...
peoples who studying in government school, as majority can see, alot teachers slacking and lazy? haha we used to be seeing all these teachers... well training students to copy notes memorizing and others its a normal things we can see...
yet not many noticing, actually we already being set into a mind set of being a workers forever with high probability...
why i said so? haha 6+ 5 years of education in government school i often heard, study well get good grade, you will be well employed and good pay . in the end you will be rich.... how true about this statement? haha... for those working now... i guess you guys will feel aiks kinda recalling the statement somewhere listen before... well less than 30 % accuracy... why so little... cert is a freshie just started working will based on results... due to lack performance in the field to be observed... but problem solving? haha how many people able to solve problems for company... even myself also not that good in problem solving... well about details... no need to mention much, just point the important part, study well get good grades and you will be rich or no money problem in short...
for private, not applicapable for all,
where environment, full with rich parents... haha does anyone interview the students around there? well i can give few answer about their ambition, i wanna own a clinic... *for government school students will wanted to be doctor in short employed*
i wanna own a lawyer firm *again G school will just wanted to be employed as a lawyer* and others...
well i guess pointed kinda clearly about the statement...
own and wanna be
why two words so big diff... cause both effort and contribution diff...
diff mind set will gives diff resulting payment...
for owning a business they bearing the risk and high effort of making it out...
but for being a professional just bearing the education only, which most time highly in debt due to education loan and hardly paying it off...
well i guess people reading it getting the ideas what i wanna stating...
to be in owning business or to be workers
depends on own choice... to be frank, being a worker for guy, needs 3k salary if married... due to house rental and others expenses... well you all can do the calculation... but for having children who will be going for tertiery education, 3k per month its not enough to cover the cost...
to keep the long story short, choose your road wisely to be in the right direction for what you wants... peoples most time are followers due to friends and family influence... you its your life, so decision for your life based on your decision not others...
the end
~~~~
lets see what majority childrens are educated on...
private? government? haha either of them will build diff kinds of mindset
i can state 1st i study in government school... till my secondary school life...
why i pointing this information out? simple... to widen the mindset...
peoples who studying in government school, as majority can see, alot teachers slacking and lazy? haha we used to be seeing all these teachers... well training students to copy notes memorizing and others its a normal things we can see...
yet not many noticing, actually we already being set into a mind set of being a workers forever with high probability...
why i said so? haha 6+ 5 years of education in government school i often heard, study well get good grade, you will be well employed and good pay . in the end you will be rich.... how true about this statement? haha... for those working now... i guess you guys will feel aiks kinda recalling the statement somewhere listen before... well less than 30 % accuracy... why so little... cert is a freshie just started working will based on results... due to lack performance in the field to be observed... but problem solving? haha how many people able to solve problems for company... even myself also not that good in problem solving... well about details... no need to mention much, just point the important part, study well get good grades and you will be rich or no money problem in short...
for private, not applicapable for all,
where environment, full with rich parents... haha does anyone interview the students around there? well i can give few answer about their ambition, i wanna own a clinic... *for government school students will wanted to be doctor in short employed*
i wanna own a lawyer firm *again G school will just wanted to be employed as a lawyer* and others...
well i guess pointed kinda clearly about the statement...
own and wanna be
why two words so big diff... cause both effort and contribution diff...
diff mind set will gives diff resulting payment...
for owning a business they bearing the risk and high effort of making it out...
but for being a professional just bearing the education only, which most time highly in debt due to education loan and hardly paying it off...
well i guess people reading it getting the ideas what i wanna stating...
to be in owning business or to be workers
depends on own choice... to be frank, being a worker for guy, needs 3k salary if married... due to house rental and others expenses... well you all can do the calculation... but for having children who will be going for tertiery education, 3k per month its not enough to cover the cost...
to keep the long story short, choose your road wisely to be in the right direction for what you wants... peoples most time are followers due to friends and family influence... you its your life, so decision for your life based on your decision not others...
the end
~~~~
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Difference Between Love and Infatuation
Difference Between Love and Infatuation
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by evonhon on 16-07-2008Are you really in love? Or do you think that you are in love?
There is a big difference between Love and infatuation. Some people can’t tell the difference, thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation. Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.
Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.
Infatuation says, “We must get married right away. I can’t risk losing them.”
Love says, “Be patient. Don’t panic. Plan your future with confidence.”
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they’re away, you wonder if they’re cheating. Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don’t have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.
INFATUATION
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person “fall into” infatuation, but “grows into” real love.
Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you’d faint?
This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often you don’t know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless.Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person.
Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.
Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if
you are truly in love.
LOVE
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated “patient” means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations.
When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding.
Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace.
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.
Love is Kind Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others..
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
2. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party’s strength.
3. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
4. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
5. Love is Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, “If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget
about me!” Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.
6. Love is not about bragging. Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
7. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is not conceited, boastful,cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an “I can take you or leave you” attitude. His demeanour implies, “You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you.” Of course, this is not love.
8. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential.
9. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn’t criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others.
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
10. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.
11. Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended.
12. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self- centred. Love says, “I love you, I want to give to you.” Selfishness says, “I love you, I want you!”
13. Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together.
14. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn’t hold grudges when it has been
wronged. It doesn’t remain resentful.
** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. **
Filed Under (Uncategorized) by evonhon on 16-07-2008Are you really in love? Or do you think that you are in love?
There is a big difference between Love and infatuation. Some people can’t tell the difference, thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation. Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.
Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.
Infatuation says, “We must get married right away. I can’t risk losing them.”
Love says, “Be patient. Don’t panic. Plan your future with confidence.”
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they’re away, you wonder if they’re cheating. Sometimes, you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don’t have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.
INFATUATION
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person “fall into” infatuation, but “grows into” real love.
Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you’d faint?
This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often you don’t know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless.Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person.
Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.
Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if
you are truly in love.
LOVE
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated “patient” means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations.
When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding.
Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace.
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.
Love is Kind Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others..
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.
2. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party’s strength.
3. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
4. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
5. Love is Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, “If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget
about me!” Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.
6. Love is not about bragging. Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
7. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is not conceited, boastful,cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an “I can take you or leave you” attitude. His demeanour implies, “You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you.” Of course, this is not love.
8. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential.
9. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn’t criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others.
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
10. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.
11. Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended.
12. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self- centred. Love says, “I love you, I want to give to you.” Selfishness says, “I love you, I want you!”
13. Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together.
14. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn’t hold grudges when it has been
wronged. It doesn’t remain resentful.
** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. **
Saturday, September 27, 2008
My life... for sem break~
Have anyone wonder... 2 jobs in 1 day can be done? one sales one just like a slave doing those shit jobs? well i been through this kinda life... morning digi till nite 9pm... 11am starts work... i feeling funny... why is that digi people needs to employ so much people... now i get it... when i working in it... management problems... do we needs more workers to slacking doing nothing? or we need quality workers... ? some peoples think that working is just like slave for boss... well i amit... but how many people think another way round when working? developing own skills and creativity when working? boss sure like u more when you do so... just like what happens to me... being offered when there are vacancy for digi for me during event or road show outside... but still... there is high chance rejecting...
why? management problems... full timer... if you guys can see... how many of them... really working... i being working for digi... but in 2 sense... one is dealer company... one is from digi HQ... the diff i can see... although u are full timer... for digi HQ... out field... all are same... no slacking allowed... but dealer? wow the staff got diff status... i can see... 50 % staff about that figure... slacking... smoking and delays job when boss not around... when see their boss, faster come and do work... very pro in acting... but sorry... to say that boss isnt that stupid... thats what i can see... if not no need to guide them doing work if they capable of doing works independently...
i dreams to build an own empire ... but will i manage to do so...? i dont really know... but now i find a team... which i can called... for 21 years... not having a really truely friend... till today i feeling... these people i working with in maxis rolling team... are family... we suffers together... we jokes together... we fight together... but one thing , we really care each another...
thats why, i wont drop this job for maxis... not because maxis was so good easy to do, its just that we can know one thing... these people trusted, really friend... will assist me in future... when i have problems....
sales sales sales... its a sales team job... well what i can say... we not really doing sales... but we really having funs... although its just guys... we wont really disturb each another having gf life... as we arent kids who cant understand simple things... we have diff views... but each another understand each another view...
the best part, we are not slacking alone by selfishness... if wan off, we pack and off duty together... not by one or few slacking in front of others part timer...
if a company have these staff... how long it will last? having inefficient workers?
thats a problems... but face it... personally will have an solution... well i have my own solution when i stating this problems...
life full with problems but if you go and face it... you are diff... which in short you can make sure problems wont bothering you but fear to find u... your life will be easier... end for today stories...
why? management problems... full timer... if you guys can see... how many of them... really working... i being working for digi... but in 2 sense... one is dealer company... one is from digi HQ... the diff i can see... although u are full timer... for digi HQ... out field... all are same... no slacking allowed... but dealer? wow the staff got diff status... i can see... 50 % staff about that figure... slacking... smoking and delays job when boss not around... when see their boss, faster come and do work... very pro in acting... but sorry... to say that boss isnt that stupid... thats what i can see... if not no need to guide them doing work if they capable of doing works independently...
i dreams to build an own empire ... but will i manage to do so...? i dont really know... but now i find a team... which i can called... for 21 years... not having a really truely friend... till today i feeling... these people i working with in maxis rolling team... are family... we suffers together... we jokes together... we fight together... but one thing , we really care each another...
thats why, i wont drop this job for maxis... not because maxis was so good easy to do, its just that we can know one thing... these people trusted, really friend... will assist me in future... when i have problems....
sales sales sales... its a sales team job... well what i can say... we not really doing sales... but we really having funs... although its just guys... we wont really disturb each another having gf life... as we arent kids who cant understand simple things... we have diff views... but each another understand each another view...
the best part, we are not slacking alone by selfishness... if wan off, we pack and off duty together... not by one or few slacking in front of others part timer...
if a company have these staff... how long it will last? having inefficient workers?
thats a problems... but face it... personally will have an solution... well i have my own solution when i stating this problems...
life full with problems but if you go and face it... you are diff... which in short you can make sure problems wont bothering you but fear to find u... your life will be easier... end for today stories...
Thursday, August 21, 2008
hate being single...
everyday walking around... i can see alot lover holding hand walking around... well may b till now i still not used to b single...
single hv the freedom but still it makes alot diff for me as i want a gf who really can support me... i scare i cant bear alone anymore... i just tiring to stand alone... as i dun like the feeling... of bearing everything alone... when i really needs someone to talk to yet i cant find anyone... as no one can be trusted... my surrounding full of backstabbers... knowing too much about me end up will backstab me... well i just try to express out abit... cause i cant tell everything here...
single hv the freedom but still it makes alot diff for me as i want a gf who really can support me... i scare i cant bear alone anymore... i just tiring to stand alone... as i dun like the feeling... of bearing everything alone... when i really needs someone to talk to yet i cant find anyone... as no one can be trusted... my surrounding full of backstabbers... knowing too much about me end up will backstab me... well i just try to express out abit... cause i cant tell everything here...
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